Serious spiritual students attempting to practice service and unconditional love are often unaware of how they are still programmed by old religious beliefs and outdated concepts that teach that love and being spiritual means “saving” anyone who does not hold “correct” beliefs, beliefs held by the person or religious group.
The feminine aspect of God consists of intuitive, gentle, loving etc. energy and is so fully present in both men and women but often leads to the erroneous belief by many that it is a woman’s duty to care for and save others even if it means sacrificing her own freedom, health, or free will choices .
Because the feminine energy is more prevalent in women, they have been taught and are often expected to accept that they must sacrifice their own goals and needs for the good of–children, husband, family, church, etc.. This belief is a flat out denial of one’s Divine individuality as well as that of the person that may need but does not want saving. It is the denial of every person’s innate God given dominion.
The concept that service at the expense of self is the way it is has been and continues to be promoted by people and religious organizations that interpret love in terms “fixing” everyone who is not meet their concept of “right”. Because they believe that their personal beliefs are the only truth they think that is their God given duty to bring others to this “truth” by any means possible which often consists of judgement and criticism toward those choosing to refuse their version of “truth”.
In these present times of higher dimensional awakening, many evolving souls are finding themselves confused about what they should to do when confronted by a friend or family member who is struggling through a difficult time. It is important to honestly examine one’s intentions when attempting to help another because a much of the three dimensional world’s “do-gooding” is actually ego that does not flow from spiritual awareness but from a desire for praise and attention.
In third dimensional energy, there are and always will be problems because evolving through”earth school” means having experiences that consist of duality (pairs of opposites), separation (from God and all others), and many powers (powers other than the one and only power which is God). Situations arise for everyone that require giving service and help to another be it a family member or stranger and most are happy to do it even at great sacrifice to self. What we are speaking of is the concept that it is a person’s duty (usually a woman’s)to give her energy, time, and service to another deemed to “need it” at any expense to her.
Most individuals are happy to serve others and do it because it is who they are as a spiritual being, it is innate in every person even though most do not realize this. Many are now wakening out of false three dimensional dream and are beginning to align with the higher resonating energies of the fifth dimension. This energetic shift is part of the ascension process now taking place on earth and will bring a higher understanding of love and service as it dissolves much of the current belief system.
Human who live from a third dimensional state of consciousness do not overly concern themselves with the problems of other people or life forms because they see themselves as being separate from them. The third dimensional belief system believes that everything good is outside of them and must be sought after, earned, taken, or somehow make it come to them. Three dimensional humans get all their pain and all their pleasure from outside of themselves.
Souls spiritually evolve as they experience lifetimes of good, bad, and horrible. They begin to sense a connection to others and may discover themselves becoming aware of another’s issues realizing that they are similar to his own. He/she begins to feel a spark of compassion for the suffering of people and other living things and may find himself drawn to help although at first it usually only involves family or close friends.
Long ago the master Jesus seeded universal collective consciousness with the truth about unconditional love and oneness which in turn opened the door for “common man” to access it. Those spiritually ready for the deeper truths began to understand that LOVE IS ONENESS–THE ENERGY CONTINUALLY FLOWING AND CONNECTING ALL INDIVIDUALIZATIONS OF THE ONE DIVINE BEING CALLED GOD.
The idea that it was possible, even necessary to love everyone, all living things and not just one’s own family, friends, or those you agreed was a new concept and as these seeds of real truth began to take root in human consciousness, the outer world began to slowly but surely reflect this. In Jesus’s time, very few actually understood what he was trying to tell them, but those who were spiritually ready awakened to; THAT WHICH I DO TO ANOTHER, I DO TO MYSELF.
When truth becomes one’s state of consciousness, life begin to manifest in and as new and higher expressions. He/she begins to feel compassion and becomes an good listener but does not feel the need to rush around saving, healing, fixing, and changing others in the belief that there is something wrong with them. He/she begins to understand that the outer is an expression of the inner because very person is made of creative Divine Consciousness which makes every person a creator. He/she can relax in the realization that everyone is on earth to experience the lessons that they themselves chose pre-birth for their spiritual evolution, that every individual has a Higher Self and Guides, and no one needs fixing or healing.
Relieved of the burden to “save” everyone, a spiritually aware person is able understand the needs of others from the level of compassion (love and oneness) rather than from the level of sympathy (alignment with the other person’s lower resonating energy). A spiritually aware person does what he/she is intuitively guided to do, takes whatever human footsteps are necessary, but always does it with respect for the other person’s choices. An awakened state of consciousness knows that no one needs to be saved because every person is an individualization of the ONE Divine Consciousness (God).
A spiritually awake person’s hand is always ready and available to grab should another reach out, but does not feel obligated to reach into the “gutter” and forcefully pull another out who does not want to be pulled out and actually may have chosen that experience for their own learning. Trying to save those who do not want to be saved is often the ego based belief that you know what is best for someone else. There are many who need more third dimensional experiences as they spiritually evolve.
This higher way of seeing other’s problems does not mean handing someone a stone when their need is for bread or loudly proclaiming; “God is all, everything is illusion…” which would be a very three dimensional response and indicate that one was not as spiritually evolved as they thought themselves to be.
Spiritual love acknowledges the Divine Reality of every person and when guided helps to meets their needs, not their wants. Viewing life from a higher spiritual perspective makes it very easy to see what is causing another’s problems and the temptation is to rush in to help. If the individual is receptive, give them insights and advice, but it must be done without attachment to a particular outcome, conditions, or demands and always with respect of the person’s choices.
In order to live from a higher sense of love and service, one must learn to trust their intuition in every situation and learn the difference between needs and wants. Release old programing about love being saving, fixing, changing, or healing others. Unconditional love is the ability to see through all appearances and acknowledge the reality alive and well within every person. The highest level of service you can give is to silently and secretly greet every person with; “I know you who you are, Christ, the son of the living God”
Everyone is a Divine being regardless of how ignorant of it they might be. Take the human footsteps you are guided to take for another always remembering that they are Divine Beings having human experiences. God doesn’t need “saving”.
MCR 3/26